Case Study One: Stressed-Out Sue
''Sue', 23, came to me in a highly agitated state complaining that
she felt she was on the verge of 'going crazy.'
She reported the following problems:
- Feeling close to tears much of the time
- Irrational thoughts
- Feeling depressed sometimes
- Feeling manic some of the time.
I asked her about her routine and she told me that she got up
at 6.00 am everyday to catch the early train to her job in a busy
IT company in the city. The rest of the conversation went something
like this:
Me: "So you just grab breakfast and get on the train
then?"
Sue: "No I never bother with breakfast, I grab a coffee
on the train."
Me: "Gosh, you must get really hungry by lunch time!"
Sue: "I don't bother with lunch I just work straight
through and eat a sandwich on the train at the end of the day"
Me: " What time do you get home?"
Sue: "About 9.00 pm then, to unwind I drink a bottle
of wine so I can get a decent night's sleep."
Me: "And how long have you been feeling like this?"
Sue: "About six months!"
Me: "How long did you say you'd been in your present
job?"
Sue: "Wow! It must be around six months now."
So, Sue was getting up at six, skipping breakfast, skipping lunch,
grabbing fast food on the homeward journey and then drinking herself
to sleep. At weekends she slept and caught up with friends but
usually felt too lethargic to do very much.
I suggested to Sue that continually ignoring our mind and body's
basic needs usually has severe consequences. I suggested that,
as an 'experiment' she do the following:
She also mentioned that she was thinking of asking her boss if she could have one day during the week working from home. I enthusiastically agreed that this was a great idea as she would then have an extra travel free day.
I saw Sue the following week. She was transformed. She beamed at me, looking years younger. She was sleeping better without the alcohol, she was eating regularly and was now working at home on Wednesdays. She said her moods had totally stabilized and she was no longer tearful. This was two years ago.
I bumped into her recently and she told me she was still "checking the oil and water before worrying about an engine breakdown!"
Other case study: Loner
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